Navigating social situations in China requires understanding local customs and etiquette. This guide helps expats avoid common mistakes and build meaningful relationships.
Greetings and Introductions
Handshakes are common in urban areas. Use verbal greetings like Ni hao. Avoid hugging or excessive physical contact with new acquaintances.
Visiting Chinese Homes
- Always call ahead
- Bring a small gift (fruit, tea)
- Remove shoes at the door
- Greet elders first
- Wait to be shown where to sit
Gift-Giving Customs
Appropriate: fruit baskets, quality tea, local specialties. Avoid: clocks, white flowers, sharp objects, shoes, green hats.
Dining Etiquette
- Wait for host to start eating
- Eldest served first
- Use serving chopsticks
- Never stick chopsticks upright in rice
Understanding Face
Never criticize in public, avoid saying no directly, dont embarrass others, give compliments modestly.
Festival Etiquette
Chinese New Year: wear red, give red envelopes, avoid sweeping on Day 1. Mid-Autumn: give mooncakes, family reunions.
Common Mistakes
- Calling elders by first name – Use respectful titles
- Tipping – Not customary in China
- Public displays of affection – Keep minimal
- Discussing sensitive topics – Avoid politics